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- THE RELUCTANT LEADER (WITH GOOD REASON)
WHY WE GET SO FEW OUTSTANDING LEADERS
Can I recommend the recently released feature film 'Prime Minister'.
Former New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern had me hooked right from the start of this documentary film when she speaks to an audience at Harvard University in Cambridge, Massachusetts...
"You'll be our future decision makers and leaders...
and it must be daunting looking out at the challenges
that are in front of us.
There's so much change that we want the World to be simple again.
And part of that oversimplification is that we're much more inclined to look at one another
in binary ways. Good. Evil. Bad. Right.
Has meant that we've got a hyper partisanship that I think can be really damaging
now means we don't work together as much.
It means we don't listen and engage in respectful debate that we need.
And if we are to get back to doing all of those things,
because we won't solve the climate crisis unless we do,
we won't solve the conflict in the Middle East unless we do.
We have to re-humanise one another."
Her Prime Ministership in NZ is a casebook study in what happens to decent leaders...they get burnt out.
Her inspirational leadership is to be admired but any leader no matter who they are simply can't keep giving.
Even the US President a man who is a master of abusing confidence and bulldozing his way through looks like he's stretched presently.
The really outstanding leaders have a balance between their emotional and intellectual selves. An awareness of both the masculine and feminine within. A long term view rather than the knee jerk reaction.
They know themselves so well.
How we do so love to blame them when our bottle isn't heated to the right temperature. Jacinda Ardern is an apt example where those who haven't got the foggiest about why they're even breathing will lay siege to those who are at least having a go. It did not surprise to have it revealed in this documentary film that she did not want to be the Prime Minister in the first place.
She knew what she was in for.
Jacinda Ardern ultimately earned her stripes as one of those rarities…
… a leaders leader.
My experience of most New Zealanders is that they are a wonderful people... mostly. That's one of the reasons I'm planning to live there. But there'll always be in any location the loud and lost in life who make themselves heard simply because they choose not to listen and learn. Small pond thinking is not the ocean. Isn't it called ignorance? We all suffer from it to one degree or the other.
The film 'Prime Minister' is just a wonderful expose on what it takes to be a real leader.
A person can only have the greatest admiration for those who possess the strength, capacity, resilience, talent and tenacity/persistence to keep at it.
Wholistic leaders are sadly in short supply in our times. Too many so called leaders just don't have the vision to see a broader, farther and deeper picture forward let alone help make a reality of it. Most of them only know how to apply band aids. And this is only a reflection of the short term values we have allowed to creep into our clutching mindsets. In fact we won't let leaders take us forward because we're too protective of our past and present at the expense of our future. Too many only have a view to their next pay packet. Trying to see further only addles the already overloaded headspace.
It's my job as an artist to say things like that.
Politicians can't. We are offended too easily. Artist's try to hold up a mirror to the truth in any given situation and that can be discomforting.
And too there'll always be the extreme of the nit wits who think they are born to rule and can lead us out of our own mess. Delusions of grandeur.
We get ourselves into the messes and we get ourselves out of these messes.
Real leaders encourage us to do just that not solve our problems for us.
They can only help by their experience, actions and inspirations.
There's no other way but to accept that our humanity is going to need to either lower its expectations of our leaders (nay, further, our expectations generally) or learn to share a greater responsibility amongst ourselves for the sane and proper stewardship of ourselves individually, our humanity and the planet.
My goodness don't we baulk at all of that. Scary stuff...and it can be.
Even a hint of it to some sends them into cold sweated apoplexy and complete denial.
We want big brother to solve our problems for us...until big brother is no longer delivering what the small minded egos expect... then they discard those leaders and look for some other scapegoat to take on the burden of their own collective weaknesses.
Isn't all of that being exposed presently. Nowhere to hide.
This is the first step in us moving somewhere worthwhile by accepting that YOO are your own leader.
I am learning that honouring yourself is to step up the ladder of life. Most important.
Too many don't feel they are good enough.
The quality of your own life is up to the relationship YOU make with YOO! Neville
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What is your vision for YOO?
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